Nate's finalization Nov. 2009

Thursday, October 30, 2008


On the adoption front-- here is a brief re-cap of everything that has happened since Jan. '08 in 100 words or less.


We finalized Landon's adoption on April 1--exactly 3 years from the day he first came to our house. There was much rejoicing throughout Spencer land. Landon was one happy boy. He wanted to go out to eat at "Red Crab". He loves shrimp.


Oh- not on the adoption front, but news nonetheless- We had also just moved into a new house about a week before this photo was taken. We wanted a bigger house so our family could grow. It seems to be working.




We had also taken placement of little Tristan (the little blond in the photo). He was placed with us as a possible adoptive placement, but adopting from foster care is unpredictable. Our sweet little guy went back home just 2 weeks ago, and we miss him a lot. Especially Luke. They were very close. I wish his family the best, and pray they will be a good family for Tristan to be raised in. They have all our contact info, but so far, have chosen no contact.


In May we journeyed to Chicago to meet our newest son, whom we named Dylan. Dylan's adoption has been unique for us in that it is an open adoption. He lived with his birth parents until he was 4 months old. They decided at 2 months to make an adoption plan for him, and then went through several files, and weren't able to find the right family. We heard about him through an email on our Reece's Rainbow Yahoo group, and knew we had to send our homestudy. They chose our family, and we are still in awe at that. He comes from a wonderful family of Russian immigrants, who truly wanted to make the best choice for their son. They love him and miss him very much. We are privileged to be able to share our sweet boy with this family. He is pure gold. His birth grandparents just came out for a visit, and it was fun having them here, to show them how much Dylan has grown in the past 5+ months. They brought us all many gifts. Grandma Sveta also made us Blintzes. Yum!!


And all this time, we were still trying to get our sweet Aunika home. She is constantly on our minds. We got news just yesterday that things seem to be moving on her file, and they are hopeful of having her legal status cleared soon. I'm afraid to get my hopes up, but We pray it won't be much longer. We scheduled our homestudy update, and also have to get re-fingerprinted. I hope all our paperwork comes together quickly. We rushed through it all the first time, then sat and waited for a travel date. and waited. and waited. Then all our paperwork started expiring, but we still had no news, so we decided to wait, instead of rush through it all again, just to have it expire before we travelled again. Let me tell you, we get very tired of being asked if we have any news from Serbia, and having to say "no". We are praying that this time, everything will come together, and we can go get our daughter soon.
okay, so that was WAY more than 100 words, but seriously... who's counting?

2 comments:

Julie said...

It is good to hear what is happening in your lives. Your boys are beautiful, and I'm praying that you will have your little Aunika home soon. It sounds hopeful.

Blessings,
Julie

Shelley said...

I'm so glad to see an update on your family! I was just thinking about your family today. I don't know if I ever told you, but your blog post last November is what planted the seed of adopting from Serbia in my heart. Grifyn(Jovan) is such a gift! He has been a wonderful addition to our family. I went back today and read the post you wrote about him. On that post, you said "can't you just imagine him running through the house with his brother"....and I wanted you to know that today, he was doing just that(and with his sisters too)!
Just wanted you to know that we're praying that you get good news from Serbia soon!

Luke the Belly Popper

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